According to most studies, people’s number one fear is public speaking. Number two is death. Does that sound right? This means to the average person, if you go to a funeral, you’re better off in the casket than doing the eulogy. ~ Jerry Seinfield
After much procrastination I finally made it to an open mic event at my local coffee shop. Without a doubt, I’ve been missing out!
Although there was a relatively small turnout and at times more performers than people in the audience, I thoroughly admire anyone that is able to share their talents in front of any crowd.
When I envision speaking in front of audiences, I tend to get nervous when thinking about large crowds. Today, I realized that it takes just as much courage to perform in front of a very small audience, especially if nobody appears to be listening to what you’re saying.
Several motivational speakers I follow have mentioned that when they first began, even if there was only one person in the audience, they still got up and performed. They just kept giving free performances and eventually the audiences became larger, and they began getting paid for the value they delivered.
The funny thing is that when Moe, of the coffee shop, was getting ready to set up for the event, he initially thought I was performing, but I backed down from the opportunity to speak. By chance, one comedian, also named Jeff, started a conversation with me while he was on the mic and he passed on some great advice: “When performing it doesn’t really matter if people love you or hate you.” You must not let what other people think affect how you feel about yourself and your actions. That’s true courage; the ability to take other people’s opinions and criticisms, and still go about your own business, following your own purpose and passions.
A singer/songwriter, Patrick, had me thinking about writing some tracks for him to sing the chorus. Two other singers, Elizabeth and Cindy, performed for the first time at a small venue like this. They talked about the rush and excitement they get when in front of an audience.
I vicariously shared that passionate energy while sitting in the crowd. I’ve felt it before when giving speeches or doing things outside of my comfort zone. I know I’m good at this, I can offer something different, and I can enjoy working at getting better; I just need to stay in touch with other people already doing it.
Tonight, I am glad I put off my excuses and attended an open mic. I was in the presence of, and connected with, some courageous artists.
I am motivated and inspired. I must create more and be prepared to perform when called upon. Powerful creative energy is stirring within me and I promise to bring it to life.
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